Chapter 444 – Chapter 444. Difference in Conversation
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The next day, she had a meal with Hyena and her older sister and talked.
The menu was bone hangover soup.
There is a bone hangover soup restaurant that is a bit far from going to gosichon, but I took a taxi with Hyena and my sister to go there.
The bone hangover soup restaurant in Gosichon isn’t bad either, but the bone hangover soup is leaner and the broth is better.
Since we had been drinking the night before, Hyena and I agreed that it would be nice to have hangover soup as well as a hangover.
The bone hangover soup came out very generously in a large pot, and Hyena noona served me a large bone with a lot of meat on the front plate, and she also put the meat on the front plate and we ate together.
I wanted a Coke, so I ordered another Coke.
The combination of the spicy bone haejangguk and the cool and bitter coke was also good.
I had a conversation with my sister Hye-na while eating the fairly large piece of bone-haejang-guk, which was spread over the skin. Hye-na’s sister had a bright face.
“Ah, it’s so good that I don’t go to work. I wish I didn’t go like this every day.”
“Shouldn’t you go on a trip next time you rest like this?”
“Yeah. Even if it’s not, I went down to Gyeongsang-do once.
“Are there any acquaintances over there?”
“No, I just went back and forth between home and office, so I went to get some fresh air.”
“It’s crazy these days because of the corona, so I think it’s a bit like going out anywhere.”
“Right. If you look at it once in a while, do you see people wearing masks and eating at a restaurant?”
I also saw such a case once.
In the case of the bone haejangguk restaurant where we dine, it is pushed back during peak hours, but the time I and Hye-na visited was before the peak lunch hour, so no one was there.
There are cases where you wear a mask while eating, and take it down for a moment only when eating with a spoon.
I don’t think that kind of look is extreme.
Even when the corona virus first broke out, I thought if I had to wear a mask if I wore a mask, but now it has become a strange world if I don’t wear a mask.
So, I think wearing a mask and eating while being as careful as possible while eating is, in a way, okay.
“What do you do when you go in now?”
“Ummm, well, take a break.”
“Do you have any dramas to watch?”
“No, there is no fortress.”
“Um. Is that so?”
“Uh. I recently watched a drama because it said there was something interesting about it, and it was a family drama. Personally, I like something a bit more unusual than a family drama.”
“I see. I also like action or comedy.”
“Really? Ah~, it would be nice to go to the cinema on a day off like this if it wasn’t for the corona, really~.”
“Right.”
“I went to the cinema not too long ago? But since so many people didn’t come to the cinema, the shops around the cinema went bankrupt.”
“That’s sad.”
I’ve seen that too.
I didn’t go to see a movie, but I went to eat because it was a good restaurant, but since the movie theater wasn’t doing well because it was in the commercial area around the movie theater, the nearby shop disappeared, so I went somewhere else.
Even at the beginning of this year, there was a lot of talk about the corona virus being hot in the summer and not functioning well, and the number of infected people would decrease.
But let’s just live without caring about it, once you get it, there’s no cure yet, let alone the mortality rate, once you get it, you have no symptoms and there’s a risk of recurrence, so it can be fatal.
Due to the corona virus, there are a lot of restrictions.
In particular, since there are restrictions on gatherings, it was said that I am not, but in the case of church members, there are also cases where the church attends online.
Of course, to prevent the spread of infectious diseases, it would be more appropriate to hold religious meetings online, but in the days before Corona, it was still a once-a-week pleasure for many elderly people, but now that they do not go to church, some of them may be silent at home. It seems.
“Then, what about your hobbies or something?”
“Um~.”
Hyena noona thought for a while, then she turned on her phone and showed me the game.
“This.”
“What is this? A puzzle game… Is it something like that?”
“Yes! That’s right. If you do this like this, this place will disappear like this? This is how you wake up.”
“I’ve done something similar before.”
“Really? Do you want to try this too?”
While eating, I played some games on Hyena’s cell phone.
I have many experiences with many women, and what I felt then was that many of them tended to like puzzle games rather than hunting and beating games like men.
Of course, it is true that if you catch a puzzle game once and then play it continuously, it has its own toxicity, so it is true that you will continue to play it. Seems to be most
In a way, I don’t know if it’s because of the genetic traits left over from when men hunted and women gathered in the early days of mankind.
After that, Hyena and I talked about many things.
“Jinhyeok, which do you like Korean food, Western food, or Japanese food?”
“I don’t cover anything in particular. I like them all. What about my older sister?”
“Yeah, I’m Korean.”
“Oh, that’s a relief? Isn’t this a bit similar to Korean food?”
“Hohoho! That’s right. It’s delicious, here?”
“Thank god.”
“I’ve never been here before when I was in Goshichon.”
“Because we had to walk all the way to the other side of the goshichon where we are, very few people knew about this place, right? It seems that a lot of residents originally live here.”
The story between Hyena and I was mostly non-stop.
This is also something that can be done this way as a kind of experience.
If you haven’t met the opposite sex for a while, there are cases where you don’t know what to say to the other person.
I’ve heard that.
It happened a little while ago, I went to a club with my friends, and a friend went to a club once, but there was a case where I never met a real woman at a club.
So I’ve been playing role-playing.
The next time, before going to a club, I went to a cafe sometime and I played the role of a woman and the friend talked to me, and the first words were like that.
‘You look beautiful.’
What is this… It’s not even a comment from 60 years ago, and I didn’t understand well at the time to say such a story.
So when I asked what happened next, the friend said.
When I said I was beautiful, the woman on the other end said thank you in a slightly insincere way, and then got up and left after a drink.
Even so, in the case of clubs, standing is cheap and the table price is often quite high, so it was a waste to blow the opportunity like that.
However, since I saw quite a few such friends, not just one or two, I also came to a realization as I analyzed them.
It is a difference in experience.
Men usually experience a lot of conversations with men.
While attending school for 12 years from childhood, except for some, most of the time, boys play with boys, and girls play with girls very often.
Then, there are cases where I am used to talking to men and have no experience in talking to women.
Even my friends, who are very good at finding things to talk about when talking to men, sometimes find it difficult when talking to women, and that is because of experience.
When men talk, they know a certain topic that is mostly common.
For example, there are game stories, politics or economics stories, health stories, sports stories, military stories, and erotic stories.
Any of these things can work well with anyone.
But in fact, when you talk to a woman, you can’t talk about anything like games, politics, health, sports, the military, or erotic things, so you can become a scarecrow.
In fact, it is correct to talk in a completely different way when talking to a woman.
When I talk to a woman, I think that two factors play a big role: forming a bond of sympathy and romance.
Empathy is to empathize with what the other person is saying.
For example, if a woman says that a cockroach has come out of her house, a man will.
Touching a cockroach is disgusting, but it can be said that it can be okay if you catch it by using newspaper so that the cockroach does not feel the touch in your hand.
However, it is valid in a conversation between men, but when talking to a woman, then the other person cannot feel empathy.
At such a time, continuing the conversation with stories such as how scared the cockroaches were, were you surprised, and were you okay?
And when it comes to romance, in fact, you have to be quite familiar with it.
This is because even if the same situation is given, there can be a difference between being able to tell a romantic story and not being able to.
For example, if you see her drinking water and say it’s a normal conversation, you might say something like ‘I’m just taking a sip’.
Or, depending on the type of water she drinks, she could be talking about bottled water products.
But if there is a question, ‘Are your lips moist because you drank a lot of water? Your lips are moist, but your heart seems a bit dry. Hasn’t it been awhile since you’ve had a very warm and heartfelt connection with a man?’ If you say, it can be a word with a romantic element.
It was just an impromptu thought.
The word “Moist” Stimulates the sense of touch, and the word “Dry” Makes me feel like they’re looking at me.
This kind of empathy and romance can make a pretty good impression in a conversation with a girl, especially if you’ve only just known her.
Oh sure, empathy and romance conversations might not work if she keeps her heart shut.
If she’s closing her heart, it’s very likely that she won’t do anything to tell me something first that I can relate to.
Also, her romance conversations may become romance conversations if she likes her, but may just be chicken talk if she doesn’t like her.
So, if you feel that forming a bond of sympathy and having a romance conversation from the beginning is unreasonable because you haven’t opened up her heart, you should do ice breaking first.
It’s just showing wit and letting you know that you’re a person with some level of social intelligence.
Even if it doesn’t seem like a big deal, it’s an incredibly powerful method.
The world has its own desolate side as we live, and in such a world, it is wit that gives the feeling that there is energy and shows social intelligence as well.
These are the differences between a man’s conversation and a woman’s conversation.
However, although I know through numerous experiences the process of conversation that leads from such wit to empathy and romance, I don’t use them so intensely.
It’s because I’m a handsome man, so many beauties come to me even if I don’t have to be tempted like that.
“Looking in front of you, there’s ice cream. Shall we eat one on the way?”
“Hohoho! It looks delicious~! Ice cream too!”
No matter what I say, beauties tend to just feel good because I am a respectable person myself.
I talked about this and that, and with my sister Hye-na, we had a snack at a bone hangover soup restaurant that I thought was okay.
